Riding in Rapport
You are not alone, thousands of riders suffer in silence or are not even aware of the extent their nerves are having on their competion performance. Do you find yourself feeling sick as you are getting ready, perhaps you don't even sleep very well the night before. And isn't it funny how your horse, is really on its toes while you are preparing for the event. When you arrive the first thing you do is find the loo! If anyone offers you a bacon roll, or trys to engage in any form of conversation - you discover your inner diva or god and snap their heads off. You have already focussed on what your horse is going to do wrong before you even enter the arena ....... and isn't it funny how they always prove you right!
If you recognise yourself in this description, then NLP and Hypnosis will help you change the way you think when you go to an event ..... your performance will improve, your horse will be happier, you will be happier and your supporters will 'actually' want to support you again!
Has your horse become a field ornament?
Do you find that your horse is spending more and more time unridden - the timespan between you riding is becoming longer and longer. You wake up in the morning and think, right I am going to ride today - but as you get closer to the yard, you have already begun to think of all the reasons for not riding - amazingly they are so believable you convince yourself that you 'actually' can't ride today! "its far too hot today, I'll ride later", "the flies drive my horse mad, he'll hate it", "she did look very slightly lame when she came in, I should probably rest her" ..... sound familiar? You may not even have noticed a specific time or date when you started finding excuses not to ride. The reason that you don't want to ride, may not even be related to horses in any way shape or form, but transfer from other areas of your life where you have made limiting decisions about your confidence, your ability and so on. NLP, Timeline Therapy and hypnosis can help you eliminate all your limiting beliefs and decisions forever .... its a no-brainer really isn't it, get in touch soon and let me help you get back in the saddle.
Traumatic accidents that are in your mind ....
Perhaps you have experienced a riding accident of some description and your confidence has been dented. Everytime you ride you are re-living the accident over and over again, something inside your head just won't let it go and allow you to enjoy riding your horse again. NLP and especially Timeline Therapy and hypnosis will help you look at the past situation in a different way. By looking at something bad from a different angle, we are able to take back control of our emotions and be positive again about the things we love. Now you know there is a solution and that you don't have to live with this feeling anymore ... what is stopping you from ending this now...you perhaps?
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